Expanding the Conversation: Welcoming Men Into the Domestic Violence Healing Space

Leanne Veronica
Apr 25
2 min read

For too long, the conversation around domestic and family violence has been shaped by one story — and while it’s a vital one, it’s not the only one.

Recently, I’ve had several powerful and emotional conversations with, and about, men who have experienced abuse. Some have been dismissed. Others were too ashamed to speak. Many didn’t even realise that what they were living through was domestic violence.

They just knew something wasn’t right.

They felt small. Controlled. Shamed.

They were told to “man up” or blamed when they reached out for help.

They stayed silent — not because they wanted to, but because they didn’t know where to go.

It’s Time That Changed.

I want to be clear: Domestic violence can happen to anyone — regardless of gender. And men deserve support too.

That’s why I’m making some changes to my website and services to make space for men who may be:

Living in emotionally abusive or controlling relationships

Recovering from past domestic or childhood abuse

Struggling with shame, confusion, or isolation

Unsure if what they’re experiencing even is abuse

You do not need to have all the answers to start healing.

You do not need to fit into a certain box to be worthy of help.

You just need to take one brave step forward — and I’ll meet you there.

What’s Changing?

💻 New Website Content

You’ll start seeing updated language and resources that include male experiences — because your pain is real, and your healing matters.

🧍‍♂️ 1:1 Counselling Support for Men

Safe, private, trauma-informed sessions for men who want to talk, explore, or just feel heard — with no pressure and no judgment.

📘 Blog & Resources for Men

New articles and educational content to help men understand what domestic abuse can look and feel like — especially when it doesn’t match the stereotypes.

A Message to the Men Reading This

If you're questioning your relationship… if you’re walking on eggshells, or constantly being made to feel like you’re the problem — please know this:

You are not weak.

You are not broken.

And you are not alone.

I see you. And I’m here for you.

To Everyone in Our Community

This shift doesn’t take anything away from the work I continue to do with women, children, and families.

But healing grows when we expand the conversation.

When we see people, truly see them — no matter their gender — and offer a hand.

Let’s keep doing that.

With compassion,